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Get Naked Training – Video

My style of femdom erotic hypnosis isn’t always traditional. In fact it rarely is. Its more free form and usually its about transforming you into a whore or a cocksucker or maybe turning you into the girl you’ve always wanted to be. But this little ditty “Get Naked Training – Video” is more in the traditional style, with trigger words and the like. The visuals are abstract blended with yours truly’s… or really yours truly’s tits magical though they are.

 


Why I removed all my content from Kinkbomb and why they suck

Cross posted from Jennydemilo.com

I’ve been selling my content on Kinkbomb for over a year. For those of you who don’t know who they are they are a fairly new clip site  with “offices” based out of Las Vegas. They call themselves “Kinkbomb Media Group” But I’m pretty sure it’s about 4 people. I’ve had personal contact with 3 of them. A nameless, Customer service rep, A tech support guy and the President who’s said his name was Joshua.

When I registered to sell content with them there were only a handful of store up and operational and it was easy for me to quickly become a top content provider. I spent 3 solid months of driving traffic, adding links and promoting my content on their site. Kinkbomb takes 40% of my sales and for that they process the transactions, host the content and provide traffic or what I like to call “eyeballs” The more people who see your stuff the more likely you will make sales. I give up 40% of my earnings for those services. After 3 months I didn’t see my sales increase by much, they hovered in the barely getting a check range and I decided to put my efforts into my other clip stores. Especially after getting my analytics results and doing some analysis. I was driving a hefty portion of my traffic, in fact I was driving most of it. So Kinkbomb was making 40% of my sales for payment processing and hosting my content for sale. That for those of you who don’t know is outrageous. If Kinkbomb was providing traffic and i was still not making any increasing sales well, that’s on me. Kinkbomb was not bringing eyeballs to the table so i basically did the bare minimum moving forward and put my efforts into marketing and promoting my stores other sites.

Flash ahead to a few months ago when Kinkbomb servers failed. Almost all my content was lost, how did I find out about this huge problem? I stopped making sales and spent some time asking around until I found out that Kinkbomb had a huge server failing and that many stores were effected. I went from being the number 3 or 4 content provider to being off the list. Kinkbbomb eventually sent out a mass email to its stores informing them that their content might be affected with a promise that eventually it would be fixed to be patient etc, etc… Not an email telling me directly how I was effected and what steps they were taking and what steps I would need to take to correct or compensate for the issue. I had to follow up with that after several days of Kinkbomb tweets asking for their stores patience and some emails informing that it would be rectified soon.

It wasn’t, most of my content was lost. It needed to be uploaded again, descriptions added, pricing information added, keywords added, animated gifs added, it was a mess. KB’s tech guy was helpful and i mass uploaded all the content I had easily accessible since most was on back up drives and needed to be searched out. I spent a fair amount of time uploading my content to which KB told me they could eternally reinstate the other info. Yay! Only it was bullshit i found that out a month later when all my best selling content, my hypnosis mp3s were in the server but not listed for sale. I had to by hand add those to my store for sale. So much for kinkbomb doing the linking. How did I find that out… no sales, then investigation. Which was becoming a pattern for Kinkbomb

Okay I get it shit happens and it was a huge pain in the ass and Kinkbomb handled the situation really badly. A sever melt down is a huge deal and causes work for everyone. Kinkbomb’s lack of personal attention and having what appeared to be a piece mail solution thrown together only as needs arose and studios complained and as after thoughts didn’t help. But I was able to get a quarter of my content back up for sale and put Kinkbomb out of my mind and got to work on other sites and life was almost back to normal with them…

Then the unthinkable happened…

I got an email informing me that Kinkbomb had over paid me due to an accounting error on their part and a “new” accounting system they went on to say they would be docking my current drop. They gave me blanket numbers and did not provide any documentation. A day later my deposit was docked. I then did my own accounting based on my sales emails and found sadly, not to my surprise that my numbers and Kinkbomb’s numbers did not match. I provided Kinkbomb with this information including transaction numbers and asked that the difference be direct deposited to me that day.

Email one: Customer service then told me that 3 of my sales were “incomplete” sales and that the “system” had sent out the emails too soon.That glitch was being corrected.

Email two: Customer service then said that according to “finance” 2 of those sales were charge backs and that one was just refunded no reason given.

That’s when I saw red. Let me be clear we are NOT talking about a lot of money were talking a few bucks. I responded requesting documentation of the two charge backs and a reason for the third and i asked a lot of questions. If in fact the sales were charge backs why did they say they were incomplete sales? what steps were they taking to block the buyer? What investigation was done for these charge backs? how could a trust them with so much conflicting information? and so on and so on. I was not a happy camper and i felt like kinkbomb was being either shady or plain old  incompetent and i let that be known.

Email three from the president of Kinkbomb media: giving me a “charge back” lesson explaining to me what a charge back was and the general process with no information pertaining to my specific “charge backs”  NO answer to any of my questions and none of the supporting data I asked for. I had explained to kinkbomb in my previous email that they have used up their  good will and that i could no longer excuse their business practice they needed to provide me proof of the situation. The email i received from the president of kinkbomb was condescending in tone,  especially where he got to the part where he touted Kinkkbomb as being “tops” in the industry “bar none” he had the balls to tell me that after their server melted down, after they docked my deposits before even letting me know there was a possible issue, with bringing under 500 eyeballs to my store a month  and with extreme lack of customer relations or service. Really that’s tops? No one does better then that?  Well color me fucking surprised.

I wrote back asking the president of Kinkbomb media if he would be the one answering my questions from now on and if i would be getting the charge back documentation from him personally and i have not heard back from kinkbomb media since. Radio silence. well I get the mass emails where they tout their lame as fuck contest where they try to get the studios to promote heavier to win something lame so they don’t have to buy any actual advertising. Yeah, i got those but nothing from the president who thought it important enough to inform me what a charge back was but not important enough to actually answer my questions.

In my frustration I thought to myself how stupd can they be? Then it dawned on me its not that Kinkbomb is stupid (shady maybe) it’s that Kinkbomb thinks I’M stupid and they have been acting accordingly.  Great way to do business Kinkbomb. So I removed my content of f their servers but left my store up because IM STILL WAITING for my documentation of those supposed charge backs and I’m still waiting for a reason for the third refund and while I wait I’m not comfortable making any amount of money for Kinkbomb Media and since they have shown that they are untrustworthy I thought it better to just remove the content pending the answers I need to feel comfortable doing business with them.

I have a feeling i’ll be waiting forever, so be it as long as they can ignore me is as long as i can tell people my personal experience with them and that’s what i intend to do. People can make up their own minds and if they decide to do business with them they can take their own measures to safeguard that they aren’t being for lack of a better term ripped off.

Maybe kinkbomb should have checked me out that not unlike some of the other studios who have left them because they were unhappy with Kinkbomb that I may be a low money maker with them but my mouth is tenfold and if you wrong me I will make sure everyone knows about it …. until you make it right or when hell freezes over which ever comes first.


Custom clip requests

When it rains it pours, that seems to be a theme in my life. Recently I not only moved to Washington DC but my custom clip requests are off the hook. By that I mean they are rolling in fast and furious! I love making customs, it’s really one of my more favorite way to make clips and mp3s because its a collaborative effort. I am bringing my clients desires to life in my own unique way, with my own unique twist on them. Basically its all kinds of fun and I do love to have fun. They take a while to produce but I always try to get them finished asap, I keep to a strict schedule. See I’m not just strict with my playthings I expect similarly of myself  too

Well back to the salt mine


Small Penis Humiliation

Small penis humiliation is one of my favorite fetishes! I love to mock your cock, especially when I know how you shamefully get off on the whole experience. I also love making clips to give those who are unable to book a live small penis humiliation session just a little taste of what it would be like.

small penis humiliation

Buy the full length clip:


DC Dominatrix

DC Dominatrix washingto dominatrix washington dc dominatrixWashington DC Dominatrix…I’m well on my way. I will be living in the Washington DC metro area and taking appointments beginning December 2011. I’m also looking for dungeon space to rent for sessions. Until i can secure space I will be offering outcalls only, to homes, upscale hotels and dungeons you secure. If you happen to know of anyone or any commercial space that is available for session rental to professional Dommes such as myself, please put me in touch with them. It will tickle me pink. Until i am settled same day sessions are not possible so please plan ahead if you would like me to make you crawl and whimper 🙂

 


Washington DC Dominatrix

washington DC dominatrix

Pink hair and long legs

Washington DC Dominatrix:  Yes that will be me. I’m relocating to Washington DC and will be living there in about a month. You lucky little politicos and feds! You will now have one of Los Angeles Premiere Dominatrices in living in your midst. I will be taking sessions as soon as I am settled but feel free to email me an introduction if you are so inclined to get the ball rolling and get a jump on everyone else as i’m sure i will be very in demand once I’m a permanent resident of DC.

I will be looking for commercial dungeon space to rent on a per session basis once I arrive in Washington DC , if you have the hook up or know of who i should be making that inquiry to, please do tell.

 


Boot Domination

New boot domination and boot worship clips added to my fetish hypnosis and clip site. Over the knee super sexy black leather boots, long lean legs and hot sexy wiggly toes.

Lots of fetish clips available in all areas that amuse  me.. cuz we both know its all about me 😉


Erotic Femdom Hypnosis Site Launched

After a few false starts and much hard work i am finally able to announce the launch of my new Erotic Femdom Hypnosis themed website. I own it fully, its not a 3rd party site where you purchase clips and mp3s and i get a cut, its MY site. I pay a 3rd party to process my payments and as a result i can keep my prices for femdom hypnosis mp3s and fetish video clips a little lower. I make more on my self produced content and i pass a savings on to you, Because I’m good like that.

I’m still going to be selling my fetish clips and erotic hypnosis audio recordings though Clips4sale and Clippette this is just one more option for me and luckily for you.

Please take a moment and check out my new erotic femdom hypnosis website explore it to your naughty addicted hearts content. I will be uploading new files all the time and yes you can buy custom fetish clips and audio direct on the new site as well. because i care 😉


Follow directions

Be good or be gone

Its probably a good idea to follow directions if you call for a session. Be that a phone, online or in person session. If you dont you might just get hung up on, or ignored and blocked forever or even yelled at.  Asking a lot of stupid questions after you’ve already been told how to proceed in the lame attempt to get a little hot talk outta me, yeah that’s not going to work. I understand that it can be intimidating to contact a Domme for the first time but don’t let the fact that the idea of being dominated makes your cock twitch as an excuse to forget how to be respectful. Asking me or any Domme 3 times if shes good at what she does cuz you just need to be sure while i can clearly hear you being breathy and likely stroking your non existent cock will get you nothing…ever. So remember use your manners and dont try to pull one over on me, cuz it ain’t my first time at the rodeo!

 


Auto Tune Your Cock!

Stroke Addict – Femdom Hypnosis:
I made a little auto tune promo for my new Hypnosis Mp3 “Stroke Addict”Because i could and i thought it was fun. You will too. do Listen to it…Stroke addict
To get a real sample of the actual Mp3 goto my Clippette Store

stroke it ..

Trained to stroke, stroke, stroke. Conditioned to obsessively touch your own cock but never cum. the more you stroke the more you want to cum the more you will be addicted to stroking… Powerful Femdom hypno “STROKE ADDICT” directed arousal and stroke addiction/obsession hypno, Be trained and conditioned to crave to stroke for hours at a time but to never cum. and subliminally manipulated into taking the steps to being truly addicted to heightened arousal when you stroke, Being under my command a control you will find it gives you great satisfaction, you in fact find you crave to stroke obsessively but never are you allowed to cum. Be put into a deep trance, have your mind manipulated and played with. Give up all control. Find yourself doing things you never imagined.

Deep dark triggers, subliminal suggestions, back masking, multi back tracks. All the bells and whistles to send you into a deep trance state and leave you addicted to stroking your cock over and over and over and never being able to achieve orgasm stroking just makes you want to stroke more when you are under my control.

Includes: Obsession, stroke addiction, heightened arousal, triggers, subliminal suggestions, double tracks, deep implantation of reactive thoughts.


Double Domme Sessions With Ms Devyne

Miss Ashley

My very good friend Ms Ashley Devyne will being coming to visit me on Thursday July 14th (yes Bastille Day!) I thought it might be fun to offer some double Domme Sessions. Ashley is a strong, articulate, skilled and wildly erotic powerful women and you should consider yourself lucky to be in the same room with her let alone get the opportunity to  session with her and i together. Its a double trouble dream come true.

She will be here for a few days on an impromptu vacation only and we will be accepting sessions for just a few short days or until we get bored. So don’t dilly dally!

Special session rates if you say you read the double offerings on my blog of 425 for a 1 hour double Domme session and 825 for a 2 hour double Domme session. Extended sessions, public outings, and overnight torments are possible, email me for info.


Doubles with Goddess Helena

Goddess Helena!

Hey guess what.. I’m now offering doubles with the ever beautiful and down right amazing Goddess Helena. Helena has her own unique style and loves to make sessions something you will never forget. Now you can never  forget the two of us… together.. how lucky are you. Not for the week of heart but for a lucky few it will be an amazing experience you will never be able to forget.


Cockslut Femdom Hypnosis

My latest Femdom hypnosis Mp3 collaboration with Sal DeBain is out and available. Its called “CockSlut” Yes, this is a forced bi BDSM Mp3 audio file. Forcedbi it popular among my Mp3 purchasers so i do like to keep them happy by making more for them to gobble up. (get it gobble up zing!) This a professionally produced and its really for lack of a better term “trippy” it really starts to heat up at about the 7 minute mark when the tracks divide and you get two, two, two tracks in one. Half your brain will hear one side the other half will have a completely difference experience. It really raises the bar on Erotic Femdom Hypnosis.

Hear a sample of Cockslut

 


How to fnd a Dominate woman

Learn it, know it, live it

I know its not easy for some of you to get up the nerve to call a Domme. That your desires are often your big and well kept secret. How devistating it must be when you get up the nerve make the call then blunder though it and not connect or worse piss off the Mistress on the other line because you make mistake after mistake in how to talk and deal with her. Yes, there is a correct way or rather a best way to contact a Professional Domme. One that both gets you to your desired goal (an amazing session) and doesn’t piss off the women you are attempting to connect with so that she will refuse to meet with you.It happens more then you think it does.

Lucky for you my friend Serene Sin is teaching a class on how to find a dominate women. Serene is a BDSM sex educator and professional Domina. She has a very clam way about her and is pretty much the most accepting of people I have recently encountered in the BDSM community. You would never feel uncomfortable at one of Serene’s classes or events. This is a class that potential clients and those looking to connect with Dominate women really should think about taking. You will only need your class fee, an email address and to remember to tell her that it was from ME Mistress DeMilo that you heard about the class. Simple as pie and well worth the effort. I can guarantee you will have better luck with your interactions with Dominate women after Serenes class.

Event Info:

Sunday, May 29, 2011

2pm-4pm

4117 Overland, Culver City, CA 90230

$30 at the door. Remember to use Mistress DeMilo as your reference.

http://fetlife.com/events/49039


Sploshing with Jenny

One thing i love about my job as a professional Dominatrix is that you never know how your day is going to end up. Sex work in general is like that. Sometimes you are just surprised. I as the other day with a sploshing request. Not a common request for me so i jumped at the opportunity to get wet and messy. I had so much more fun then i expected to and … i got pictures!

Enjoy!

No pictures please

Chocolate sauce and sexy feet

I spelled my name in syrup

Sploshed Ass

Completly covered in goo


Houseboy

Umm yeah...no

I do not want, need or have any interest in a  house boy, there is no need to call me to “introduce” yourself to me because you are “in the lifestyle”  I think i make this pretty clear. I am only seeing PAID clients. I am only booking sessions where i am compensated for my time with cold hard cash (unless you  own stock in Apple©)

So why do i still get these calls .. oh i know because the “something for nothing” crowd  just throws out the pathetic something for nothing net to as wide an audience as possible in the hopes they will get some sucker to session with them for free… umm cuz they’re a HOUSE BOY. oh whatever wanker.  I’m not interested in your stupid lame tricks I’ve seen 100,000 times before and I’m sure the other 100 women you called today with your obnoxious come on are not interested  as well. If you cant even understand the basic dynamic of a Domme sub  interaction then really what use would you be as a greedy fucking ass hat houseboy. o you wouldnt be you’d be work… and work.. i wanna get paid for.

Umm yeah blocked… the end.


Sissy Slut

Femdom Hypnosis Mp3

New Femdom Hypnosis, Sissy Slut. I love them! I love to dress you up in frills and turn you into my little slut. This is a psychedelic inspired mind bending transformation audio file.  In collaboration with DeBain who is a mainstream known music producer and rockstar lending his talents under a pen name. It  will send you deep into a trans formative trance, just what sissy sluts need.

Listen to just a tidbit: SissySlutPreview

Sissy Slut, is available though my Clippette studio

 


Time is money

If you cant understand that then we probably wont be “friends”

The end.


It’s called torture for a reason

Shut up and take it

Let’s get this straight there’s a reason its called nipple TORTURE. Its supposed to hurt, its supposed to be unpleasant, over simulated and uncomfortable. That’s part of the charm that is nipple torture. You’re supposed to take it, take the pain because it amuses me, entertains me or just because i said so. I’ll clamp them, clip them, squeeze them, pinch them, slap them, bite them if i feel like it. I expect you to handle it, endure it, deal with it. I dont expect you to request nipple torture, tell me how you love it, how it turns you on and gets you off then then whine like a little fucking girl that it hurts. No shit. I know it does, I’m hurting you then laughing at your predicament on purpose. Becareful what you ask for, because i’ll give it to you .. in spades.


New Erotic Femdom Hypnosis

Cock obsession at its best

I was able to hook up with one of my rock-star music producer friends for a little collaborative effort on a new femdom hypnosis MP3. Yes, being a notorious Hollywood party girl does have its benefits. My friend and collaborator will have to remain under the Nom de Plume “Pat Dry“. A pseudonym as it were to shield his mainstream music career from the evil backlash that is Professional domination and fetish enthusiasm…heh. However this is the real deal and its kicked femdom erotic hypnosis up to a higher level.

The new Mp3 is called “Dickmatized” and its available though me directly or many of my clip studios Like Clippette or Clips4sale. It’s 24 mins of audio fetish femdom delight that will take you to places you never dreamed of going to before. To the deep dark world of cock obsession. All my talent and that of my cohorts were brought to fruition on this new Mp3. Not only is is exciting and haunting but it employs many unique effects such as multi track masking and back masking. Implanting deep  subliminal triggers and multiple hypnotic suggestions that will be buried deep within the inner and real you. This seriously is the good stuff. Best listened with headphones to get the full and total hypnotic effect and there are lots of effects.

Sample of DickmatizedPreview

More collaborations are on the way, though its hard for me to get on Pat Dry’s busy schedule being as hes got mainstream albums to produce, write and play on and all that jazz. So keep your eyes and more importantly your ears open for more in the near future.


Like omg the valley fer sure

Youve been very bad

Well I finally buckled down and got use of dungeon space in the San Fernando Valley for my BDSM sessions yanno for those that cant seem to make it over the hill into LA proper. I’m going to be sessioning out of Sanctuary which is in the Reseda area of the valley. Its has been around for about 10 years so I’m sure you more experienced little freaks have been there already. Nice space, clean, easy to get to and it has everything i would need to torment you in any way i see fit.

I will be available with at least 2 hours  notice for same day appointments and generally from 10am to 10pm. Of course I’m always much happier f i can plan ahead and you know how you would like to make me happy.

 


Communication breakdown

I'll give you a cool hand Luke

Being a submissive is not a euphemism for being a lazy uncommunicative greedy little pig. Though so many potential subs/slaves/clients sure do act like it is. I need to know what you want, need, desire. How else can i determine if I’m the right Pro Domina for you? I know i know it ruins your “fantasy” if you actually have to communicate your needs. Well get over that bullshit you selfish prick. I’m not a Domme robot and if you treat me like one I’ll likely walk out on you, ignore you, hang up, whatever it takes. I am not a mind reader and i can not work out your needs for you. So know what you want, learn how to ask for it. That’s step one and when your ready to actually play, then you have to know how to let me know if somethings not working for you. If you tell me you are interested in nipple torture and out of the kindness of my heart give that to you, and what you really wanted was to worship my amazing long legs, beautiful feet and  sexy black boots …well that’s not going to be a very fun time for anyone now is it?!

So get your shit together, know what you want and stop using “submissive ans an excuse for …”lazy”


The Domina Panel

The Domina Panel

The phone rang a it was Serene the woman behind ” The Domina Panel” I had heard of her but have never met her before, a mutual friend prompted her to give me a ring as she thought we might get along and be of help to each other. Serene was pleasant and frank and i love both those qualities in people. She invited me to her event and gave me a little history about her and her goals with community building. I agreed to attend because Serene is aptly named her sincerity came though in spades and that is a rare quality in the BDSM community at large. Maybe you should  attend too..

 

March 20, 2011, 3:00-7:00 PM

The Stockroom, 2811 W. Sunset Bl., Los Angeles, CA 90026


 


Censored mouth

X-posted from my other blog: Jennydemilo.com

So Youtube in all their wisdom has spent some time removing my video clips from their site because they are now considered after 100K views to be”adult content” and or my “INTENTION” and sole purpose was convey sexual gratification. Of course that’s all bullocks. Its not “adult content” its my mouth with some spit. My intention was to drive traffic and well if you got a hard-on and it made you uncomfortable because you saw me spitting and drooling then that’s on you… uptight prude. This clip was also removed from the fetish site Wewhipass  for being “nasty” (yes the same site i watched a clip of a guy being lashed in public and another getting fucked in the ass with a strap on) and then later i was told that it wasn’t a fetish and that’s why it was removed and still later i was told they remove it just cuz they could as is the right they reserve but strangely isn’t written down for other members to see.

So with out further adieu… my tongue, which is so filthy, nasty and sexy that both vanilla websites and fetish websites a like both agree.. its way to hot for them to handle. You be the judge.

http://vimeo.com/20189253